I am Angela Safar, your sex, love and relationship coach!
Picture this: a life-loving, adventurous soul who can’t resist the call of travel and believes deep in her heart that we all deserve a beautiful, happy life, no matter what curveballs life throws our way. That’s me!
Like many others, I didn’t exactly hit the family-life jackpot growing up. Healthy love? Never saw it. Secure attachment? Wasn’t in the cards. At 16, I found myself thrown out of home, forced to fend for myself.
So what’s a young, adventurous ADHD spirit to do? Run away! After all, I was thrown out of home and in my world I had lost my family. So I left Sweden.
A few years later, I met a narcissist. In my naivety and desperate longing for love and security, I became the perfect target, someone who could be easily controlled and manipulated.
Getting away from the narcissist? Whew. It left me feeling like a shadow of myself, depressed, burnt out, and with trust issues that could fill a book. It took me years to become myself again.
Then for a while, I thought I had it all figured out. I thought I was good, healed. Sure, I was self-medicating with epic adventures, weed, alcohol, and parties, completely avoiding my emotions like they were an ex at a small party. Classic, right?
Then came the plot twist: I met this incredible, loving man. Here’s the thing, I had become the toxic one. I couldn’t express my feelings. Emotions gave me the ick and filled me with shame. My solution? Whenever I felt something slightly upsetting, I smoked it away.
In this relationship where I finally felt safe and loved, my nervous system screamed “nope, too unfamiliar!” and I unconsciously sabotaged everything. My fearful-avoidant attachment style was running the show.
But you know what? That mess became my message. It was my wake-up call, my turning point, my start to working on burning my karma.
My life has been much more than these key traumatic experiences but they have profoundly shaped who I am today.
So why am I sharing these experiences with you? Because when we go through life with unhealed traumas swept under the rug, pretending everything is fine, we unconsciously sabotage ourselves. These hidden wounds become barriers to our dream relationships, personal growth, and healing.
Professional Credentials
The beautiful year of 2023 I started my studied at the VITA Institute and became a Tantric and Somatic-based Sex, Love & Relationship Coach.
This is no ordinary school. We go through an intensive healing journey that transforms us both personally and professionally. The program specializes in Sex and Love, using somatic and embodied tools and practices to facilitate deep healing in remarkable ways.
I’ve personally experienced all these embodied tools and practices. I have both conducted and received hundreds of coaching sessions. This immersive experience has led to profound personal healing and equipped me to facilitate deep, safe, trauma-informed coaching sessions.
My mission is to help YOU find YOUR TRUTH, healing, and path to love and connection through deep somatic one-on-one coaching. Together we’ll use somatic practices, pleasure work, meditation, and breathwork to guide your healing journey.
When you work with me as your coach, you’ll get both professional expertise and real-life experience, combined with genuine care and an open heart. This unique blend creates true depth and authenticity in our work together.